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Finding Your New IDentity- Together

Updated: Jan 31, 2023

Last year I was teaching about the new ID we are birthing in the collective. I felt like I was midwifing and still am, others, to come through their solo cocoon experience.

Finding a relationship with the Divine or finding a new identity is like finding the white space in a business. You have to visit the white space, the unknown, the empty canvas to see how to meet your needs and become your authentic self:

-To go from a weak leader to a strong advocate.

-To go from a body you have deemed an enemy to learning to love yourself and heal.

-To be struggling to stand apart in your corporation to leading with your unique value.

-To going from single to a partnership.

Sometimes you have to go DEEP within to get to your truth. Often times, this takes expert help.

Identifying anything is key to the process of transformation. You have first to find the problem to get the solution. Part of getting the correct answers is asking the right questions. Sometimes you can't find this on your own. You have to hire out to find out what you don't know yet.

We don't know what we don't know until we know. We need like-minded others to help us swim to our destination.

Letting go of your old identity can be challenging, painful and unsettling. Yet, you are not alone. There are others on the path who are brilliant unique and powerful just like you. Trust, let go and flow with the river of how the Divine is guiding your life.

This prophecy from the Hopi Elders depicts perfectly this transition to transformation:

---------------------- From the Elders of the Hopi Nation Oraibi, Arizona, June 8, 2000

To My Fellow Swimmers:
There is a river flowing now very fast. It is so great and swift that there are those who will be afraid, who will try to hold on to the shore. They are being torn apart and will suffer greatly.
Know the river has its destination. The elders say we must let go of the shore, push off into the middle of the river and keep our heads above water.
And I say, see who is there with you and celebrate. At this time in history, we are to take nothing personally, least of all ourselves.
For the moment that we do, our spiritual growth and journey come to a halt.
The time of the lone wolf is over. Gather yourselves.
Banish the word struggle from your attitude and your vocabulary.
All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration.
For we are the ones we have been waiting for.


There is not just one star in the sky. There is not one tree or one human, or one seed.

We were cut off from others during the pandemic, with no movie theaters or outdoor concerts, or family gatherings. Loved ones could not see each other—some for the very last time. We all suffered the same events. Honestly, we could all hashtag #metoo #ustoo

Can we link arms and voices, minds and hearts now?

Positive change is happening and yet there are still treacherous waters.

As we shift identities and ages and years, it is of utmost importance to ask who your allies are.

Where do you feel you need to do it "all by yourself?"

Where are you open to linking arms with like-minded others so you can have your transformation and make your dreams for yourself and our world come true?

We need you. Not as the be-all and end-all. NO ONE CAN BE THE BE-ALL AND END-ALL FOR EVERYONE. So take that pressure off.

Because we are in the age where we must rise together, I am confident that those that can, are changing the leadership model from "I" to "we" and "us."

The Universe has all the time in the world. So get clear. If you need help. Ask.

Remember, we are the ones we have been waiting for.

Evolution happens together.

And EVOLUTION spelled backwards says NO IT U LOVE ❤️

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